Presentation of the book Delights of intimacy: from extimacy to sinthome by Ana Ruth Najles in the spot of the Lacanian Orientation Library of Madrid. For the author, extimacy 'is not to be at home with oneself, because there is no identity with oneself"(p. 48). The extimacy questions the identity with oneself. The subject is the place of extimacy. The extimacy structure is the structure of the subject, where the real reappears in the symbolic but already out of sense, extimate, constituted by a logical consistency. Ana Ruth Najles is a psychoanalyst, member of the EOL and the WAP. She is the President of the EOL. Santiago Castellanos is a psychoanalyst, member of the ELP and the WAP, and AE (Analyst of the School) in exercise. He is a teacher at the NUCEP. Rosa López is a Psychoanalyst, member of the ELP and WAP. She is a teacher at the NUCEP. Graciana Dithurbide is a psychoanalyst, associate of the ELP-Madrid office.